Cultural Connections: Being Intentionally Inclusive During the Holiday Season
A chill in the air, twinkling lights on windows and roofs, recognizable songs on the radio repeating sentiments of family, gift-giving, and Santa Claus. The holiday season approaches, and the evidence is everywhere. While some individuals may find excitement and familiarity in the extravagant testimony to a joyous season, some experience this time differently, facing stress and challenges often overlooked by mainstream holiday traditions. Various factors like culture, LGBTQIA+ identity, socioeconomic status, and addiction, to name a few, can shape the holiday experience. It is crucial to be mindful of the diverse ways the holiday season is observed as we strive to build a more inclusive community.
Cultural Differences in Holiday Celebrations
While scrolling through holiday movies looking for something festive to watch, you may find that celebrations are often depicted in relatively uniform and repetitive ways. It is less common to find portrayals of practices that honor different cultures. Those who celebrate in unique ways or do not celebrate at all may experience feelings of isolation or exclusion. Learning more about other traditions and how diverse communities spend this time can help create connections with those who may feel marginalized during the holidays.
Here is a brief introduction to some of the holidays that may be celebrated throughout the season:
Christmas
On December 25th, Christmas, from a religious perspective, is of Christian origin and celebrates the birth of Jesus. However, Christmas is observed secularly as well. Popular customs are exchanging gifts, decorating Christmas trees, and sharing meals with family.
Diwali
The Hindu Festival of Lights, typically falls in October or November. Diwali is often celebrated with festive lights, fireworks, food, and prayer. It is believed that when one gambles on Diwali, luck will ensue for the rest of the year, making it a particularly popular activity.
Eid al-Fitr
In the Muslim faith, Eid al-Fitr marks the end of Ramadan, a month of fasting. Families and friends celebrate by eating, praying, and exchanging gifts and money. It is customary for families to donate a charitable tax, known as Fitra or Zakat Al Fitr.
Hanukkah
This eight-day Jewish holiday commemorates the liberation of the Temple of Jerusalem in the 2nd century BC. The rescuers lit a menorah that stayed lit for eight days, therefore, lighting the menorah each night is a key practice, along with giving to charity and volunteering.
Kwanzaa
Kwanzaa is a weeklong holiday honoring African-American heritage, celebrated December 26th through January 1st. Families come together to share traditional foods and exchange gifts (often homemade and educational).
Lunar New Year
Marking the end of winter and the beginning of a new year in the Chinese calendar, the Lunar New Year is a two-week celebration of feasting, fireworks, parties, and parades. Decorations are often red, which symbolizes joy and good fortune. It is traditional for small envelopes of money to be gifted to children and unmarried adults. While the Lunar New Year is very communal, the third day of the celebration is reserved for honoring deceased relatives, and it is considered bad luck to spend that day visiting with friends and family.
The LGBTQIA+ Community Experience During the Holidays
Regardless of how one celebrates, there is a societal expectation that it will be done surrounded by family. For many LGBTQIA+ community members, particularly those estranged from their biological families or rejected due to their identity, this time of year may be especially painful. In fact, more and more people within the LGBTQIA+ community choose to spend the holidays with their “chosen family,” where they can be their authentic selves – free from the judgment they may experience from biological relatives. Even still, feelings of guilt can surface. Empowerment, compassion, and affirming care can be a powerful way to offer support to those who, for various reasons, are unable to celebrate with their biological families.
Socioeconomic Stress in a Consumer-Driven Season
Multiple gatherings, office parties, charitable donations, gift exchanges, travel, children’s required school activities, and expectations for extravagant meals and decorations; the demands of the holiday season can be mentally, physically, and certainly financially costly. For low-income families and individuals already struggling to cover basic needs, the added pressures have impacting consequences. Feelings of shame and guilt can surface for those who cannot afford gifts, travel, decorations, or large holiday meals. We can acknowledge and alleviate financial stress by redefining holiday expectations and focusing on alternative and intentional ways to celebrate.
Substance Use Recovery and Holiday Triggers
For individuals in recovery, the holidays can be challenging due to stress, emotional triggers, and exposure to environments where alcohol or other substances may be more prevalent. Many families and cultures include alcohol use, substance use, and/or gambling as a key part of their holiday traditions. In fact, the average American’s alcohol consumption typically increases 27% more during the holiday season than the rest of the year. Meanwhile, the stress that comes from busy schedules, traveling, and shopping can open a door for relapse. Feelings of grief, nostalgia, and isolation can also surface intensely. Enforcing boundaries and a sturdy, supportive network can help people in recovery navigate a complex season of celebration.
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